Thursday, December 31, 2009
Now that's more like it!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Look Out Adulthood, Here I Come.
I have graduated from college. I have found and married the great love of my life who is pregnant with twins. I have found employment. No I am not talking about another fast food job like I've been working forever now. No, I have found employment as a Mental Health Paraprofessional with NRVCS. While it might be considered low on the pay scale but it is salary and has benefits and everything. It is a good start and something I can begin to raise a family on.
So gone are the care free days of bachelorhood. Gone is the fun of being a newlywed. Now I have grown up. I have entered adulthood and started a family. I am settling down. One chapter ends and another begins. Adulthood has come and I could not be happier.
Tracy Note: I'm mega proud of this guy =D
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Life's Little Surprises Part 2
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Life's Little Surprises
Tracy hadn't really been experiencing any symptoms but felt a strange lump in her lower abdomen. (Not wanting to get into any details but it didn't seem likely that she would be pregnant). She was afraid that she had a tumor or something. Before heading to the Temple last month she decided to go ahead and take a pregnancy test just to dispel any hope. Well the test came back positive. We were shocked and joyed but we didn't succumb to too much jubilation. We wanted to go to the doctor first and get everything confirmed and checked out first.
Earlier this week we were finally able to go the doctor and Tracy is in fact pregnant. The baby is alive and doesn't appear to have any problems. She's 19-20 weeks along and due currently April 7th. So if everything goes right from here on night a baby will finally enter our lives (it looks like a girl but still has a slight chance of being a boy).
To that I only have one thing to say........YIPPEE!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Temple Bound
Tracy and I and getting ready to go the temple next week. This makes the first time we've been able to go together since we were married almost two years ago. We decided with everything that has happened to us and with the changes I am trying to make in my professional life that we needed to go back. So I got a couple of days off and saved up a little money so we would be able to take the trip and Monday we are off.
What am I hoping to gain from this trip? I don't know really. I am not expecting answers to any great questions I may be harboring. No, I think all I want is to draw closer to my wife, my savior and my Heavenly Father and maybe just get a gentle assurance that everything is going to be alright.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Anybody Want to Tell Me What's Going On?
I have finally graudated from college (yeah!) only to find out nobody is interested in hiring a person with a degree in Psychology and 9 years experience in the Fast Food Industry who also just so happens to be speak really good Spanish.
All of this on top of the fact that my teeth rotting out of my head. (Kids remember to brush and floss 10 times a day.) Now they can be fixed (somewhat) but unfortunitly I don't a several thousand dollars lying around to do so.
So I just go about my days working at Fazoli's, still making only $8.50/hr, waiting patientlly for my break to come with my beautiful and wife by my side. Whenever I feel down I just look over at her and realize that life is good.
Friday, May 29, 2009
What a Difference a Decade Makes.
I finally finished College and got my degree in Psychology. This time my GPA was average at best and my test scores (while pretty much the same from high school) have changed from great to average. Now I couldn't get into any of the grad schools I applied to. I can't join the Air Force, and it seems like I have to jump through more hoops to get into a program in the Army that I would like. On top of all that it seems hard to find a job. A Bachelors in Psychology seems to be almost worthless. I am not quite qualified for anything, other than fast food.
Is it me, have I over the years become or have made myself less desirable. Have the times just changed making it harder. Or maybe just my perception of the world has changed and I am beginning to see the world for how it really is.
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
My greatest fear.
"Tantalus's punishment, now proverbial for temptation without satisfaction (the source of the English word "tantalizing"[10]), was to stand in a pool of water beneath a fruit tree with low branches. Whenever he reached for the fruit, the branches raised his intended meal from his grasp. Whenever he bent down to get a drink, the water receded before he could get any."
I fear of working this hard and getting so close to my dreams to only have them receed from my reach and I never be able to reach them. That the light appears at the end of the tunnel but never gets any closer.
While I may have my fears, I will not let them paralyze me for hope and faith are often all I have. I have to trust that things will work out in the end.
Recently I have had cause for hope. Today I completed two interviews, one for grad school and one for the job. While the job interview did not work I have not lost hope. I still have the other, which I should find out about in the next two weeks. If that doesn't work out than I'll tr again with someone/somewhere else. Even if they reject me it has still giving me hope and has made the light grow a little closer.
Monday, March 16, 2009
5 Seconds of Fame
Going to the party also had one other benefit, the local cbs affiliate, wdbj 7, was there interviewing fans, alumni, and players and I was one of the people interviewed. While I did end up on the 11 o'clock news it was very brief and my name wasn't put up :(. Of course I said more than what they showed but they only used two sound bits totalling about 3-5 seconds. I'll take what I can get. Follow the link below if you would like to very the news story in which I appear.
http://www.wdbj7.com/Global/story.asp?S=10010070
The first time I appear its easy to see because you can see my face. The second time I am talking about the Dread the Red shirts so they are showing the shirt and you can't see my face.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Some People are Just Jerks
"It's a little chilly, in here", a short pause "don't you guys have heat?"
To which I respond in a very jokingly manner "Nah, I refuse to turn it on, I'm always hot even when everyone else in cold."
To which he somehow took offense "I'm not going to take this lets go" and began directing a somewhat confused wife and son out the door.
"You know I was joking right" I called has he was forcing his family out the restaurant.
"Yeah, I just didn't like your comment." he says before exiting.
I guess some people are just born without a sense of humor a turn out to total jerks. Maybe he was having a bad day, after all he was wearing a UVA sweater. Ethier way he comes off looking like a total B-hole to me and to his family.
Monday, March 9, 2009
A TIme to Dance
It was a lot of fun and very exciting to be there and watch it happen. I felt pride and joy, for my school and my team. I loved watching the Belorussian Beast, Art Parakhouski, dominate the lesser opponents and lead our team to victory. It was great to be apart of the raucous crowd and be able to cheer my team to victory. I look forward to watching my team on the national scene as they play in the opening round. Regardless of who they play or whether or not they win, it'll be great to watch. I'll be sure to wear my dancing shoes.
GO RU!!!!!!!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
My First Career Fair
All-in-all it was a new and interesting experience and I hope something comes of it, especially if grad school does not work out. I am really hoping that the fact that I speak Spanish helps put me in front of the pack. Well I know one of the people I talked to will call, that would be the U.S. Army, they always call.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Sheldonisms
"Explain to me an organizational system where a tray of flatware on a couch is valid. I'm just inferring that this is a couch, because the evidence suggests the coffee table is having a tiny garage sale."
"There wouldn't have been any @$$ kickings if that stupid death ray had worked."
"Oh, Do you realize I may have to share a Nobel Prize with your booty call?I'm sorry."
"Did I insult you? Is your body mass somehow tied into your self worth?"
"No, I’m going to ask him to choose between sex and Halo 3. As far as I know, sex has not been upgraded to include high-def graphics and enhanced weapon systems."
"While Mr. Kim, by virtue of youth and naiveté, has fallen prey to the inexplicable need for human contact, let me step in and assure you that my research will go on uninterrupted, and that social relationships will continue to baffle and repulse me."
"Yes, well, I’m polymerized tree sap and you’re an inorganic adhesive, so whatever verbal projectile you launch in my direction is reflected off of me, returns to its original trajectory and adheres to you."
"What computer do you have? And please don't say "a white one."
"Engineering: where the noble semi-skilled laborers execute the vision of those who think and dream. Hello, Ooompa-Loompas of science."
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
What I've been doing, a research proposal
Running Head: MUSIC AND MEMORY
Music and Memory: The Effect Studying to Music has on the Ability to Memorize Information.
Michael Fisher
Introduction
People today are bombarded with stimuli, especially from media sources. Television, music, radio, and internet compete for are attention and assault our senses on a daily bases. For most of us it is just a part of everyday life, so much so in fact that times of peace and quite are beginning to seem alien. But what effect does all this stimuli have on us? This study aims to look at one effect this stimulus overload may have.
Music is an important part of life. It is safe to say that most people enjoy listening to music in someway. This is especially true for youth. Anyone can walk across any campus in the
A study of secondary education students (8-10 grades) found that most did homework in their own rooms, over 80%, where almost all of them had at least a stereo/radio, 92.1% (Beentjes, Koolstra, and Van Ver Voort, 1996). Of the students studied only 18% reported never using the media in their room while studying. Almost all who had radios/stereos reported using them while they studied, 80%. This study also found that these numbers went down when the student studied in some other location such as the living room. It was reported that 67% of the students could hear the music in the background but kept their minds on their homework while 37% said that the back ground music demanded more of their attention as they tried to carefully listen to the music at the same time has doing their homework. Furthermore, 27% reported to switching back and forth from listening to the music to doing homework and 21% reported doing so frequently. Only 17% said that they never really heard/ paid attention to the music while studying. The study reports that the students felt that the presence of music slightly aided in paper-and-pencil assignments but had a negative impact on learning assignments.
Rock and Roll has been found to hinder the performance on mathematical and verbal test but not on reading comprehension (Tucker and Bushman, 1991). In conflict to that study another found that scores on a reading comprehension test scores did go done when the subjects listened to music while studying. (Etaugh and Ptasnik, 1982).
The familiarity of the music also plays a role. It has been found that unfamiliar noise/music causes poorer performance on reading comprehension (Hilliard and Tolin, 1979).
Some studies have been done to look at who is more affected by studying to music. Those who reported frequently studying to music have been found to be less effected by the presence of music during a reading comprehension test (Etaugh and Michals, 1975). Also extraverts have been found aided by studying to music while introverts are hurt by it (Furnham and Bradley, 1997). In this study the extraverts where help by music in memory tasks but hurt in reading comprehension while the introverts where hampered in both areas. This was again attributed to the extraverts to studying more frequently to music than the introverts who preferred to study in silence.
Many of the studies done, test the subjects while music is playing to see its effect on performance. This approach doesn’t create a very real situation as most students will not be taking tests while music is playing in the background. This study wants to look at the effects of studying to music has on ones ability to memorize information for later recall, like a student would have to do when studying for tests and quizzes. It also wants to look at the effects of varies types of music (classical/instrumental, Rock and Country) will have to see if studying to one type of music is better than another.
It is hypothesized that those who study to music will perform worse on an information recall test than those who study in silence. With that it is also believed that those who listen to classical music will perform better than those who listen to rock or country on the same test.
Method
Participants
Subjects were found through the Intro to Psychology classes at
The subjects were randomly assigned to four different groups with 20 in each group by drawing numbers out of a hat. Each group was randomly assigned, by the same method, a measure of the variable: no music, classical/instrumental, country, rock.
The subjects completed a questionnaire during the experiment about their study habits. Through the questionnaire it was found that 75% of them regularly study with music playing while only 60% of them worked on homework assignments while listening to music. The majority, 80%, when listening to music used headphones or other personal devices as apposed to listening to music over the speakers. Only 35% percent reported regularly watching TV while doing homework and 40% while studying. Most of the subjects do most of their studying where they live, 60%, versus 33% who preferred the library and 7% in other locations.
Materials
Music was chosen for each group, with the exception of the no music/control group, based on it being considered typical and common for that genre. The classical instrumental group listened to Beethoven’s 5th Symphony. The rock group listened to Dude Look Like a Lady by Aerosmith. The country group listened to Goodbye Earl by Carrie Underwood. The music was played over the speakers in the classroom using the system provided in the room. A stop watch was used to time the study and break sessions about music and study habits.
A list of twenty-five countries and their capitals was typed up and printed for the subjects to study and memorize. A simple quiz was then made to test their memorization of the information. The quiz listed 20 of the 25 countries in a different order and gave all 25 capitals and the word bank. The subjects would than have to try to match the correct capital to the country. A questionnaire was also used to obtain information on their study and music listening habits and as a distracting device. The subjects were tested in a typical university classroom at the university in the late evening.
Procedure
The subjects were divided into groups by drawing numbers from a hat and then groups were assigned to their variable levels by the same method. Instruction was given to each group and informed consent was obtained.
The study materials were passed out and the music was started. Each group was given four minutes to study the material. After the four minutes the music was stop and study guides were collected.
A questionnaire was then passed out to obtain study and music listening habits from the subjects and also to serve as a distracting devise. When all questionnaires were completed and collected the tests was distributed. Each subject was given a maximum of eight minutes to complete the matching test. When all tests were completed they were graded and scored out of twenty (scoring the number of correct answers). The scores were then recorded into a SPSS file for statistical analysis.
References
Beentjes, Johannes W.J., Koolstra, Cees M. and Van Der Voort, Tom H.A. (1996).
Combining background media with doing homework: Incidence of background media use and perceived effects. Communicating Education, 45, 59-72.
Etaugh, Claire and Michals, David (1975). Effects of on reading comprehension of
preferred music and frequency of studying to music. Perceptual and Motor Skills,
41, 553-554.
Etaugh, Claire and Ptasnik, Patricia (1982). Effects of studying to music and post-study
relaxation on reading comprehension. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 55, 141-142.
Furnham, Adrian and Bradley, Anna (1997). Music while you work: The differential
distraction of background music on the cognitive test performance of introverts and extraverts. Applied Cognitive Psychology, 11, 445-455.
Hilliard, Mark O. and Tolin, Philip (1979). Effect of familiarity with background music
on performance of simple and difficult reading comprehension tasks. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 49, 713-714.
Tucker, Alexander and Bushman, Brad J. (1991). Effects of rock and roll music on
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Cold hearted
Friday, January 16, 2009
My new inspirational line.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Just Desserts.
About a mile or so down the road I see the distinct flash of police lights and knew may wish had come true. Sure enough he had been pulled over. I just smiled and waved as I drove past. Sometimes its the simple things in life that can bring a little ray of sunshine into your otherwise dreary day.
Thursday, January 8, 2009
One reason why I hate shopping, or life in the No Go lane.
We shopped around for a while, or really looked around as we have no money to be buying much, Which my wife never let me forget as she would complain how we did not have enough money to buy everything she wanted, which was about everything there. We did decide to buy a little candy for us to snack on later. We proceeded to the check out which had only two lanes open, I picked the one that seemed the shortest and quickest. This gets me to the part I hate, I always manage to pick the wrong one.
First their is the elder lady who takes ten minutes to write out a check. Then there is the lady with three kids, each kid got money for Christmas. That means that the one person was really four, three of them children, all paying in cash and I believe one of them had a couple of dollars in change that had to be counted out. When they finally finished it was our turn. With our few bags of candy and my handy debt card it took all of one minute for us to check out and pay.
I think stores should add a new lane, one designed for the chronically slow, overly large or multiple order, people . Right next to the express line, they can call the it the No Go lane, with the instructions of 10 minutes or more.
Saturday, January 3, 2009
2009, a very big year.
First habits don't change, form or go away overnight. They require hard work, discipline and time, you can't just decided that you want to be one way then wake up the next morning and TA-DA it's happened. I just try to be better than I was the day before. So for New Year I prefer to do something a little different. I set a goal or two, something I want to accomplish or get done by years end. No, diets or exercise, no "spend more time with my family" or anything like that. I like specific and concrete goals that are easy to mesh out, measure and work toward.
This year its rather easy, I want to graduate from college. But secondly and probably more importantly I don't to working at Fazoli's anymore (with one exception). That means that I want to working some other job or be attending grad school. (If I am attending Radford or Tech, I might consider working part time still at Fazoli's). With the exception of my Marriage back in '07 this could possibly turn out to be the most important year of my life. A lot could happen that determines my future and how my life turns out graduating from college, and either going to Grad school or finding a real job. Much is certainly hanging on what happens during 2009.